The success of such infidelity sites makes a lot of sense, because they grant married "daters" anonymity. They want a "lover" to text them saying that she's thinking about them.If the chosen lover isn’t among your circle of friends, neighbors or co-workers, you're less likely to get caught. If these men just want sex, there are plenty of other well-established sites for that purpose. They long to receive a caring phone call mid-afternoon.
If your man cheats online, my heart goes out to you and I know that finding evidence of his romantic, sexual or loving words written to another woman can be like a dagger through the heart.
At that point, he was no longer willing to have sex with her.
After years of that sexless existence, he finally went online to find married women to share encounters with. He wanted an affectionate, caring exchange that also included Another man's wife was chronically ill, depressed and didn't enjoy sex. When failing, he sought out interested women, but never actually consummated sex with any.
I never went through this with my husband or with a serious boyfriend but I did briefly date a guy who had a harem of women that he ' Facebook-ed' with and the sexy things these women were writing on his wall (for everyone to see) made me wonder what was in his message inbox.
We broke it off after a few months but even though we weren't serious, I was very heartbroken and angry when I read the cyber love notes on my News Feed.
I can only imagine how you feel and I send you strength and compassion.