You enjoy each others’ company, enjoy the same things and over the next month or so you start to date more seriously. However there is one problem: his dating profile is still active.
If this sounds like your situation, you’re not alone.
Now, no insurance company, bank, or retailer can lie and tell you that they’re giving you the best price, because you can shop around and do price comparison to ensure that you get the very best deal, and it seems that this has stretched its way to dating. Yes there are honest people who date online and there are success stories, but online dating is the home of many people that have an allergic reaction to being truthful.
Plus the very act of online dating seems to send a message to people that the grass is always greener on the other side, and to spread yourself out there as much as possible.
You can’t control what anybody else does, you can only control your actions and reactions to things.” He also suggests that women should “go in with the confidence that they’re going to love you and they’re more likely to love you.
The more you worry about how often he’s logging on, and who else he’s dating, and why he hasn’t taken his profile down, the more likely you are to come across as needy.” Now whilst I can appreciate to an extent why he has drawn this conclusion – after all, if you had your opportunity to have your cake and eat it, you would – it really does fail to address the core issue with being with a man who still has an active online dating profile and is continuing to fill his boots and shop around.
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Men are slower to commit and many also need their ego “stroked”.
If there is one thing that the 21st century and the internet has brought about, it’s options.
Before we had the world at our fingertips and we were separated by thousands of miles, we truly had no idea what was out there, and whether we were getting a good deal.
For our guys to show us that they are still searching the singles scene... If you are going to go for entrapment, make sure you get far enough to know if he's really cheating or just talking to people, or for that matter, just talking to women...for the whole thing or don't play the sneaky game at all.
Maybe if he gets on for the forum he can put in his profile he is seeing someone and is only there for the forums or for friends. You didn't trust him, looked him up but after going to all that trouble, you didn't carry out your spying far enough.
now wouldn't that be a hoot :-) But this time, you'll be all the more wiser. Do yourself a favor and move on, and next time don't get so invested before you know who the person is you are dealing with.